Hey ya’ll, today I’m going to share/talk about one of my favorite topics aside from astrology!
The 5 Love Languages
For those of you that don’t know what that means here’s my little overview on them.
There are 5 universal ways in which people show or express love to one another. Knowing your love language can help form a better understanding on your personal relationship with your partner. It inevitably is the nexus to help identify how you like to receive love and vis versa; how you express your love.
So what are the 5 different ways you can express love?
You always have a primary and secondary method-
Do you want to know your love language? Good! Well, Gary Chapman, the founder of Love Languages created a survey for us to help you find out.
It’s free and simple, just answer it honestly: What’s My Love Language
Quite frankly, I was surprised with mine… When I first read the different methods I for sure thought that mine was quality time and words of affirmation. I love being told how much someone cares about me, loves me, etc… #needy LOL
But then, I took the quiz and turns out that the way I like to receive love is through Physical Touch & Quality Time
Which I feel is much more accurate because (again #needy) I’m always telling Andrew to come close to me and hold my hand and give me hugs and kisses… You should hear me at night “come snug me” LOL… All in which he is totally compliant and typically does it without even having to ask. He’s a keeper 😉
So how do you return love… Well I think that’s just about knowing yourself-
If I know myself like I think I do, mine would surely be Quality Time & Acts of Service. I notice that I like to actually do things to show my love, whether it be cooking him dinner, back rubs, head scratches, getting him something he needs etc… But I mean, IF I had all the money in the world, I know for sure it would be gift giving. I always have the best ideas of things to get someone but my wallet prevents me from doing so. *sigh*
If you already know your love language, could guess it, OR if you take the test, please share yours 🙂